Hi there,really sorry for the lack of updates.But today i would like to update about the topic "self-esteem". I get annoyed easily when people starts to say "ohh where's your pretty friends" or "she is so pretty" and usually this self-esteem will usually be in the girls community.I've never actually seen boys who has low self-esteem.Maybe i have,but i don't think it matters that much. I'm not saying that i have a high self-esteem,but really people,girls especially need to learn that they are beautiful.I do have low self-esteem at times but i wouldn't let it affect me.Cause it not worth my time to look at pretty girls and drown myself in my own misery.Honestly,you couldn't find anyone who would appreciate their features even me. Like the things that i don't like about myself,
- to skinny
- ugly flat nose
- big ears
- big hands & legs
- skin colour to dark
- crooked teeth
- small assets
The fact that no one can appreciate their features kills them,kills us in the inside.Therefore people uses make up's,go for plastic surgery,excercise......yah you get what i'm trying to say believes that these stuffs can make them love theirselves.To be honest,i find myself being in this position too.Because of the things we girls do,some are called "fake". But you see the things we do just to love ourselves. What i'm trying to emphasize is that someday we have to face the truth and love ourselves and appreciate what god has give us.
I hated myself too,i wasted my time and my parents money.I didn't find myself attractive enough.But my mentality has changed now.Please learn how to love yourself,in general whether your fat,ugly,skinny,tall...etc please try to appreciate your own beauty.Please stop with the low self-esteem shit,IT ANNOYS ME.
xoxo
2 comments:
boo! i'm back.
self-esteem must have been a hard issue on you huh? well, i am a photographer and honestly most models are not perfect too and in that imperfection believe it or not one has its own beauty. sometimes i think about it myself, how come my friend win the beauty pageant, i mean i just find her very typical and very annoying - a whole lot of them-. Trust me, who doesnt wish to be nourish with word that are so beautiful, even for a guy, i like to hear those compliment time to time.
How the creator has created us, has his/her reasons of doing so and he/she has never let you down because there is always a balance.
I think people would look great when there is a confidence on them. You feel comfort with your own so what else do you need? it's more than enough. :)
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